Teenage Sexuality Is Like A Seed. It Can Lay Dormant Or Spring To Life In A Moment's Notice
When we talk about Teenage Sex and Teenage Sexuality, we need to understand that there is a lot of it going on. Teenage Pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, negative Teenage Behavior, all leading to a myriad of Teen Issues and a host of Troubled Teens is either a result, or will be a consequence of this issue of Teenage Sexuality. Teenage Substance Abuse is also associated with Teenagers acting out in harmful or irresponsible ways regarding the issue of Teenage Sexuality. When and where and how one enters the realm of sexuality is a very important and to a large extent, individual decision. Share Your Teenage Pregnancy Story YOUR story WILL make a difference. Teenage Sexuality is influenced by many factors such as the culture in which you live, the moral and/or religious codes and convictions you choose to live by and which your parents choose to live by before you; social norms, personal beliefs and so much more. This author believes that teenagers already have enough drama in their busy lives that they don’t need the extra emotional drains and strains that come with rushing into human intimacy and the emotional taxation that it has on people, including and especially on teenagers. There will be a time and a place for all things. The teenage years are not the proper time and place for such complicated and adult matters that carry with it potentially life changing, and sometimes life ending, consequences. On a moral and practical stand this author believes that marriage is the proper time, place and venue to express sexual desires and intimacy.
Sexuality and true intimacy are such beautiful and sacred expressions of what are the deepest and loveliest of human emotions, that to share these feelings and emotions with just anyone, at any time, is to reduce them to mere commodities for the uncaring and uncommitted masses of users and takers. Those that express their Teenage Sexuality and pass their bodies and emotions and hearts and souls around and around in this manner are, by definition, reducing their own selves and worth in the process. After all, if everyone has already had something, how valuable can it really be? Doesn’t society and common sense teach us to save that which is truly precious for those who truly love us? To share the physical part of intimacy, the sexual expression which is a part, but is only a part, of the complete, committed and protected scope of true intimacy, is its own form of sexual, mental and emotional Russian Roulette. There are many practical arguments to the idea of abstaining from sexual activity while still being single and in our teenage years. They include but are not limited to: - The desire to avoid Teenage Pregnancy which can lead to the issues of being a teenage mother or father, adoption, abortion, child support payments, and on and on - The dangers of contracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases - The modern epidemic of AIDS - The desire to avoid forming premature emotional connections that could derail or delay or alter previously made plans for higher education, service or volunteer work, travel, and so on - The desire to 'save yourself' for marriage - The desire to live by a moral code of personal purity for personal or religious reasons The truth is that your teenager, all teenagers, would be happier without these types of ‘Teenage Sexuality’ issues complicating their lives. This is a topic you need to discuss with your teenager. If you need help reaching a teenager that doesn’t want to be reached, try for free this Innovative Parenting Program that has helped countless parents to reach their hard-to-reach teenagers just like yours. This program has a proven track record and it really works! Try this program as part of a Special Offer. Share with them your thoughts on the subject of sexuality, including your Family Rules, Values and Expectations which they should already be familiar with from previous discussions regarding the same. Help them to make informed decisions that will be right for them. Some teenagers believe that everyone is acting in a certain way and so they want to act that way also. This of course is not true. Help your Teenager to be prepared for the inevitable Teenage Peer Pressure surrounding Teenage Sexuality. To be prepared with correct knowledge is to be prepared to make the right decision. People live in a myriad of different ways, and your teenager needs to decide what is important to them and then live so as to have those things in their lives. Did you have to learn some of these Teenage Sexuality lessons the hard way? If so, then have the courage if you feel it will help and be appropriate to share these lessons with your children so they can avoid the same mistakes you made. Help them see how certain behaviors are in their own best interest and how other behaviors are not.
Teenage Sexuality and behavior are as varied as the lives and circumstances of the modern teenager. Just be there to help and guide your teenager when they need the help and guidance and you will surely succeed in your teenage parenting responsibilities and do right by your Teenage children. There is a lot more parenting wisdom to share. Here is another Teenage Sexuality thought: Be the Parent who helps their Teenager to safeguard their health, happiness and plans for the future at any time, for any reason, over and over again. Teenage Sexuality. Discuss It With Your Teenager Today! Return from the Teenage Sexuality Page to the Teenage Parenting Page
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