Parenting Fun Is What Every Parent Should Experience On A Daily Basis. If You Aren’t Having A Great Time Being A Parent Then You Need To Find Your Parental Fun And Put It Back Into Your Life Today
" Frame thy mind to mirth and merriment, which bars a thousand harms, and lengthens life."
William Shakespeare (1564-1616)
Parenting Fun should be the norm and not the exception to our daily Parenting experiences.
We often overlook or take for granted just how much Parenting Fun there is to be had just for the taking.
Parenting Magic happens when you as a Parent see the positive effect you have and continue to have in the lives of your children and those you love.
So why don’t we as Parents experience more Parenting Satisfaction?
A lot of it boils down to our attitudes and expectations about what Parenting is, or how we think it ought to be.
Sometimes we need a simple check-up from the neck up as the motivational speaker Zig Zigler liked to put it.
Our attitude determines our altitude in life, and that is doubly true about how much Parental Joy we feel and how often we feel it or don’t feel it.
What do you think about the following picture?
What Parental thoughts are going through your head when you see it?
Laugh and share with your child the joy of dirt and worms and the excitement of discovery and new adventures.
How great a time both Parent and child could have and share under such a positive scenario as this one, and how sad and deflated a Parent could make their child feel if the only Parental thoughts were directed around dirty hands and a bit of mud on some shoes and pants.
What is the difference between Parental Satisfaction and just another Parenting hassle to deal with?
It’s all in how one interprets what they see, and in how they respond to it.
Parenting Fun is to see what your child sees in the way your child sees it, and to remember that dirt can be cleaned up but some Parental mistakes can stay with our children a lifetime.
So increase your Parenting Fun and Parenting Satisfaction by being more childlike with your children while they are still children.
When we play on their level and love on their level and laugh on their level, we form bonds of trust and mutual admiration with our children that makes Parenting Preteens and Teenagers that much easier and that much more satisfying for all involved.
Can you imagine a Preteen giving you loads of problems when they have been loved and connected with in this manner during their younger years?
Parenting Fun and Satisfaction are best achieved through consistent and repeated happy interactions with our children.
When we start connecting, at least every now and again as appropriate opportunities present themselves, with our children on their silly and happy and innocent level, from a very early age, we create a firm foundation upon which happy children and happy families have always been, and always will be, founded.
Now of course this does not mean we will only and always be childish with our children on every given occasion.
Proper Parenting requires that we have many sides to our Parenting personality.
But if you ever discover the Parenting Fun leaving your life, just remember to re-connect with your inner child while connecting with your actual children and the fun and satisfaction will return before you know it.
Cycling is just one of many worthwhile and wholesome activities we can share with our families and have a great time at the same time.
Sometimes we need to take a step back in life in order to see the Parenting Big Picture more clearly.
Never get too busy or too ‘important’ to too ‘grown up’ to enjoy the beauty and the wonder of your child’s growing experiences, and the fun times to be had along the way.
Be there for them; experience it all with them.
Parenting Fun is a frame of mind as much as the selflessness required to take the actions to make it happen.
Recommit now to being a fantastic and fun-loving Parent and then go and have some creative fun with your children right away.
Whatever we dedicate our time and attention to usually turns out pretty good, especially if we don’t quit and see our projects through to their successful completion.
Where do you find yourself spending most of your time and attention these days?
If you don’t have much Parenting Fun anymore, it might be because your time and attention and best efforts are somewhere other than in being a Parent.
If your career makes you Super Happy and your children always seem to drive you nuts, then perhaps you are focusing your energy into activities that are not helping you to be the Parent you need to be?
Don’t complain at the results of your Parenting if you aren’t putting your best time and efforts into where they need to be as regards your children and home life.
Even the most promising of gardens can quickly become chocked with weeds if neglected for too long.
Children, Families and Happy Parenting are no exceptions.
Whatever stage of life you and your children are in, you can always increase your Parenting Fun by looking for the fun in the simple and ordinary activities of life.
One of the biggest mistakes we as Parents can make is to ‘wait until the big vacation’ or to put off having family fun until ‘this next big project’ is completed.
Happiness doesn’t wait and children don’t stop growing and needing your time and attention until your schedule allows it.
Quality Parenting, like most worthwhile activities in life, does not happen at convenient times or places.
Decide now to make time for your children always, but especially when they are young.
If you do this then the chances of serious Preteen and Teenage problems later in life goes down exponentially.
Parenting Fun and Happy Children are not accidental events.
But Beware: Parental Satisfaction is contagious and may likely be felt by the entire family if left unchecked.
If Parents are happy then it is seldom if ever you see unhappy children or an unhappy home life.
Keep yourself open to the wonders of childhood and the true needs your children have.
Before you know it your children will be Teenagers and your habit of finding Parenting Fun in everyday events will have become so much a part of your life that you will find yourself one day sitting in a stream next to your Teenager having another quality moment together.
Now seriously, how much trouble will a Teenager get into if he or she is comfortable enough to sit next to their Parent in a stream?
These moments must be sought after and worked for and cherished as often as we can help them to happen.
Parenting Fun and Satisfaction will naturally flow as a result.
There is a lot more parenting wisdom to share. Here is another Parenting Fun thought: Be the type of Parent who actually and sincerely enjoys spending time with their children at any time, for any reason, over and over again.
The following video illustrates some Summer Fun Ideas you can enjoy with the younger children in your family.
It more importantly shows how to take ordinary objects and with some creativity, imagination and a desire to have fun with your children, you too can find ways to make great memories and happy times in seemingly ordinary situations that arise on a daily basis.
Alter the activity for the age and interests of your own children and you get the idea.
Repeat as needed until one day you and your children find yourselves having more fun together than you thought possible.
Nothing fancy or complicated, just honest and enjoyable time spent with your children having a fun time.
That is what we call Parenting Fun and Satisfaction at its finest!
Parenting Fun Is The Natural Result Of A Loving And Giving Parental Mindset That Discovers How To Connect With Your Children In Ways That Are Both Fun And Memorable.