Parental Potpourri Is The Name We Give To All Those Interesting And Interrelated Parenting Topics That We Couldn’t Find Room For In Any Other Place
" The good life is the healthy life, the merry life.
Life is health, joy, laughter ."
Jean Bodin (1530-1596)
Parental Potpourri encompasses many aspects of Parenting.
Father's Advice is given as a road map to life; a Father's Instructions for happy Living.
Parenting is an act of love and devotion that touches countless lives and has an impact on our immediate family, extended family, and the larger community and world as a whole.
Parenting can also be unpredictable as Parental Time-Warps can literally steal your time and move your parenting plans in the opposite direction.
A Parenting Course, some Parenting Curriculum, add some Step Parents, Parenting Quotes and an On-Line Parenting Class and our Parental Potpourri begins to take shape nicely.
Parenting is meant to bring health and happiness to children, satisfaction and joy to parents, and improve the lives of all who are touched by its influence.
Surrogate Parenting is a way for couples who cannot physically have children of their own to finally have children of their own through the loving assistance of a surrogate mother.
Every new family starts out differently, yet all families require Parenting Skills to ensure the welfare, safety and happy future of the children that come into that family and for the family at large.
A stepfamily, also known as a blended family, requires Stepparents to parent with patience and love as they form new family units of their own.
The influence of Positive Parenting spills over to Aunts and Uncles, Grandparents, School Mates, Youth Sports, Churches, Volunteer Organizations and on and on.
These topics fall under the category we call Parental Potpourri.
So enjoy this short trip down the byways of Parental Potpourri as we discuss topics that are both interesting and relevant to the Parenting experience.
Grandparent Rights naturally flow from that positive Parental spill-over effect mentioned earlier. It is the recognition that Grandparents and Grandchildren should enjoy the right of staying in contact and having on-going relationships with one another, even in the face of divorce, death, abandonment and/or any other disruptive occurrence with the Parents or families of said children.
Grandparent Rights advocate the basic right that Grandparents have to visit with and to interact with their Grandchildren. It also further illustrates just how much your children are loved and just how wide a circle your Parenting efforts encompass.
Babysitters are next on our list of Parental Potpourri ingredients and are essential for a happy and healthy Parenting experience.
All parents need a break from the routine of family life and child-raising from time to time and yet be completely confident that the children they leave in other’s care will be well-treated while you are away as well as being safe and sound when you return home.
Finding the right Babysitter can be a challenge, but without the right Babysitter your children are at serious risk.
This is an aspect of Parenting that cannot be taken lightly.
As there are so many aspects to Proper Parenting, it should come as no surprise that there are just as many Parenting Courses that Parents can take to better understand it all.
Parental Potpourri consists of On-Line Parenting Classes, Computerized Parenting Courses, Christian as well as other religious Parenting Courses, Parenting Seminars, Self-Help Parenting books and tapes, and the list could go on indefinitely.
The secret is finding the right Parenting Course or Class for your specific needs and questions; finding the one which will fit into your busy life style and into your family budget at the same time.
A little research will go a long way in finding the right Parenting Course answers for you.
Parenting Quotes are also a great way to find extra strength and inspiration to face some of the more difficult Parental Potpourri moments that life can throw at us.
The refreshing aspect of Parenting Quotes is that they help you to see that others have actually been where you are now, have felt what you are feeling, and have experienced the same Parental emotions and frustrations you are experiencing, and were able to jot down relevant sayings and witty remarks to help us as we pass that same way by reading their words of wisdom as Parental Quotes.
There is great power in the words of great men and great women who have shared some of their most moving and insightful thoughts with the rest of us.
There are good reasons why we start each web page here at the Preteen Thru Teenage Parenting Action Guide with a Parenting Quote of our own.
Here is a particularly funny Parental Potpourri Parenting Quote:
Any child can tell you that the sole purpose of a middle name is so he can tell when he's really in trouble. - Dennis Fakes
And here is a particularly insightful Parental Inspiration:
When You Thought I Wasn't Looking
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang up my first painting on the refrigerator, and I wanted to paint another one.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you feed a stray cat, and I thought it was good to be kind to animals.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make my favorite cake for me, and I knew that little things are special things.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I heard you say a prayer, and I believed there is a God I could always talk to.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I felt you kiss me goodnight, and I felt loved.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.
When you thought I wasn't looking, I LOOKED ....and wanted to say thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking.
By Connie Back
Parenting Education was hinted at earlier but it can actually be viewed as a subject on its own.
Parental Potpourri is made up of Parenting Education classes for new Parents, for Parents of children with special needs, New Age Parenting Education to Parenting Education retreats and seminars, to so much more.
Once again, it is important to know what exactly you are looking for in order to properly align yourself with the Parenting Education that is right for you and the specific Parenting knowledge you are seeking to obtain.
If you are seeking for additional information then Parenting Curriculum may be a topic you would want to investigate further. The problem here is not a scarcity of Parenting Helps but actually the problem is a bewildering overabundance of them.
In order to find the Parenting Curriculum that is right for you and your family, it may be wise to ask yourself a few questions to better define your search as follows :
- What aspect of Parenting do I specifically want to learn more about?
- What does the Parenting Curriculum offer that will help supply me with the information I am seeking?
- How would my need for this information change if I were parenting a toddler compared to a teenager? Am I looking in the right place based on the children I am currently Parenting?
- Is the information presented in the way that I learn best?
These and other checklists of helpful Parental Potpourri questions can ensure that you get the Parenting Curriculum you really want the first time around.
At the high end level of this Parental Education can be found the Parental Potpourri ingredient of Parenting Coaches. These are individuals who work one-on-one with Parents to help them solve their most challenging Parenting dilemmas.
Parenting Coaches come in all shapes, sizes and persuasions so it is important that if you desire this individual Parental help and training, you take the time to research your Parenting Coach’s Parenting Style, Beliefs and Results. Costs do vary from coach to coach so make sure you understand what you are getting into and how much it is likely to cost before making your final decision.
If you find the right Parenting Coach that helps you solve what you need solved, the costs will ultimately be money well spent.
Don’t hesitate to ask for references and talk to other parents who have been coached by the Parenting Coach you are considering.
A little extra preparation and research on the front end will save you lots of time and aggravation on the back end.
If all of this is helpful Parental Potpourri information is beginning to stress you out, then there is a Parenting Stress Index (PSI) test that can help you identify just how stressed out of a Parent you really are.
The Parenting Stress Index is a way to quickly screen for stress within the parent–child relationship. The PSI helps to predict Dysfunctional Parenting in time for corrective Parental action to be effectively taken.
It consists of 101 questions that the Parent answers and is useful with Parents whose children are 12 years of age or younger.
And finally, we choose to end our Parental Potpourri mix with a universal ingredient necessary for success and happiness not only with Parenting, but in almost every other aspect of our lives.
And that ingredient is Humor.
Parenting Jokes are a fun way to remind ourselves of the humor and absurdity of the Parenting Experience from time to time.
To see the humor in life and to be able to laugh at adversity is a healthy and advanced Parenting skill that always serves Parents and their children well.
So acquaint yourself with at least a few good Parenting Jokes or humorous Parenting stories and the truth and humor of what you discover will give you new energy and purpose to the fun and challenging task of being the absolute best Parent that you can possibly be.
After all, feeling like the Best Parent in the World can sometimes feel like a Parenting Joke in itself.
But that’s ok. If being a good Parent were easy, then the world would be full of good Parents as far as the eye could see, and we know that is not the case, so keep on keeping on.
It will all work out in the end.
Here is just a sample of some Parenting Jokes and Humor:
- A four year olds voice is louder than 200 adults in a crowded restaurant
- Legos will pass through the digestive tract of a 4 year old
- The spin cycle on the washing machine does not make earthworms dizzy
- A Teenager is a boy who can sleep until noon on any Saturday when he suspects the lawn needs mowing
- A Teenager is a young woman who loves the cat and tolerates her brother
- A Dad would never say : “Here's a credit card and the keys to my new car ---- GO CRAZY”
And Finally
- A Mom would never say : “Don't bother wearing a jacket - the wind-chill is bound to improve”
So Whether Your Family Is An Old Fashioned Type Of Family . . .
Your Family Has Its Own Unique, Magical And Absolutely Essential Place Within The Pantheon Of Human Families, All Of Which Add Their Piece Of Parental Potpourri To The Mix We Know As Modern Family Life And A Safe And Happy Home!
There is a lot more parenting wisdom to share. Here is another Parental Potpourri thought: Keep an open mind about all that goes into your Parenting Experiences and what is necessary to make a Happy Home Life for you and the ones you love.
If you like what you have then nurture and protect it.
Keep up the good work!
If you don’t like what you have in your current home and family situation, then change it.
Take the steps now to find out what is wrong and work to make things right.
In this way your children and all who are touched by your Parenting efforts and by your Parenting successes may live safely and happily within your loving home at any time, for any reason, over and over again.
Finding The Right Babysitter For You And Your Children Is Just One Of The Parental Potpourri Ingredients That Make Up A Healthy And Happy Home!